My name is Franki Olinger.
I am the author and creator of The Five V's: A Guide to Empowerment, Happiness & Love, The Modern Day Spiritual Warriors Handbook & Workbooks and The Softness Under The Scars: A collection of private and not so private Lyrics, Poems and Thoughts. I write and release books that I feel can be relatable and healing for those who read them. Books of this type saved my life, and I want to do the same for others. I absolutely love inspiring and coaching people. I developed The Five V's coaching process because I believe there are MANY ways to heal and recover from our personal struggles. I have a belief that every human being is unique and therefore, requires a somewhat personal approach to the healing process. It is my pleasure to offer a unique solution to the wonderful world of healing & personal development that has never been presented before.
I have over 2 decades of experience in long-term recovery from addiction, self-sabotage & PTSD (among others). In my 30+ years of healing from childhood sexual trauma and abuse, as well as watching my boyfriend shoot himself in front of me when I was 18, I have learned many things about healing, my value as a human being and how to teach it to others. Always having been an entertainer since I was a small child, I was good at putting on a happy face, even though I was suffocating inside. Over 20 years ago, I started to help others to heal as well. In the process of coaching and mentoring others, I noticed a pattern of "victim" situations (big and small) which seemed to be present in all of my students & clients. I realized that we were ALL born as empowered humans without judgment, anger, fear or resistance. I asked myself, how could we return to that state? It seemed impossible, until it wasn't.
The Five V's are a part of a unique process I have created and use to coach people out of self-sabotage, limiting beliefs or any other harmful thinking patterns and habits to learn Empowerment, Happiness & The True Truth about their value, purpose & experiences in life.
Our thoughts are not only habitual, but in many cases, automatic, impulsive & sometimes compulsive. Using The Five V's process, we are able to investigate and re-wire the neural pathways in the brain which are causing problems in our lives. In other words, negative or sabotaging thoughts, actions, reactions, etc. can be changed. Positive & successful actions, habits & thoughts can be newly created - or expanded upon. I have been able to help people with decades of self-sabotage & pain find happiness & empowerment again.
My Five V's Coaching Process was developed to bring awareness introspectively which will help my clients to thrive on the outside.
Healing is created from the inside out.
The Five V's
- Victim
- Villain
- Visceral
- Vulnerable
- Vested